What was supposed to be my introduction paragraph turned out to be a post itself, ie. part 1 of this prayer challenge #day 1. That was totally unplanned. But i kinda like the way it went, so i probably am going to stick to this format.
So back to the pulpit of that day i returned to church 2 weeks after my second miscarriage. I remembered feeling “numb” inside and was just doing my usual, you know, keep on going to church. The speaker was this old caucasian guy with frontal baldness and big moustache. I already decided in my head that his message was going to be boring and the minute he started talking his voice just sorta confirmed that.
As he was preaching, i kept myself occupied by reading the bible passages he mentioned, instead of following what he was saying. Though i haven’t opened my bible for the past 2 weeks, now it was like the most interesting book i wanted to read, now, yes, during the sermon.
Despite my deliberate attempts to be ignorant of his preaching, my attention kept being drawn back to his words at the exact times, when he was making a point that resonated with my very situation. It was not selective hearing. I felt like God was speaking directly to me, loud and clear, and answering my silent “whys” over past 2 weeks and over the last few years. At the end of the sermon, i could not help but breaking down in tears, lots and lots of tears. That was the first time i cried out after the actual miscarriage had taken place. I believe healing has taken place from the inside out since that moment.
I haven’t had a good sermon preached directly to me for a long time, and this turned out to be one of the best. If i had chose to skip church that day, i would have missed it entirely (without even knowing what i am missing out, SAD!) and there would be no birth of this blog now.
The speaker was talking about the start of a new season, God is doing a new thing in His church today, based on the verse Isaiah 43:19,
“Behold, I will do a new thing,
Now it shall spring forth;
Shall you not know it?
I will even make a road in the wilderness
And rivers in the desert.”
And it is important for us to perceive, understand and discern what it is God is doing and align ourselves and flow with it.
The thing is, we always hear about a new season, but every season is like last season, every month is like last month, every year is like last year. To some of us, it gets a bit redundant when nothing has changed in our situations, and worse off, things may have gotten more difficult.
In the journey of infertility, unfortunately, we have all become too familiar with disappointments, cycles after cycles. We get tired of hearing well meaning people saying,”It will happen”, “Try again”, “Don’t give up”.We have people praying over and over for us but we just can’t seem to get the breakthrough. We often just pick up ourselves and try over and over again. But we keep getting disappointed. We are sick and tired of this.
This really struck a chord with me because i had heard this before. Just last year we celebrated 50 years jubilee and sermons after sermons talking about “the year of restoration”. I had my hope high, 2015 was the year! A new season of restoration! i would receive my restoration baby, for the one i had just lost in December 2014. So that was it! Lord, I believe! It was going to be restored nicely and be a great great testimony. I probably already had my testimony mentally written down partially in my head. But one year had come and passed, nothing. No baby.
The speaker then talked about the life story of King David. David was anointed and received his promise to be king as a teenager, but he didn’t become a king right away. He waited 15 years to actually become king. And it wasn’t all a bed of roses during that 15 years either. I encourage you to check out the book of Samuel in the bible for more details. There was a time in the place called Ziklag (1 Samuel 30), where David almost lost everything- he was pursued by King Saul, lost his possessions and family and not even close to become a king. The people around him were thinking of stoning him too! Put ourselves in David’s shoes, he had received the good promise, but 15 years, no evidence of becoming king and there he was at the end of himself at Ziklag.
Does it sound familiar to your situation? You have been spoken to, by prophets or God directly, you have received promises, but you have not yet seen the fulfillment, and your situation may have even gotten worse? I had been in that kind of desperation, in fact, multiple times. A prophet from New Zealand who speaks with great accuracy, prophesied that we are going to be parents (in fact he said excellent parents, haha!) back in 2013. More than 2 years down the road, nothing. In fact, we had failed multiple IUIs and IVFs. We had miscarried twice in 2 years. Just 2 weeks ago until now, i was at my own Ziklag.
What did David do in his dire and desperate situation? David strengthened himself in the Lord his God. David inquired of the Lord. It was in that context David began to enter into a new season. Suddenly everything changed and he started to experience breakthrough after breakthrough.
The speaker went on to say God is doing something very similar today. I felt God is speaking directly to me. True, I might be at a difficult situation now, but God is saying, “Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth.” And I need to quiet down myself and learn to listen to and wait upon the voices of God, in order to discern the things He is doing in this new season of my life. This is important for me because recently i was troubled by the fact that i had miscarried the second time, after more than 3 years of infertility. See, when the season of struggling seems like it’s never going to end, when i am constantly in the prison of disappointment, when all odds seem to be stacked against me, I tend to doubt, worry and fear. Should i start trying again now? Am i ready to do it again soon? Would i conceive again soon? Would i miscarry again (so scary!!!)? What was wrong last time? How do i prevent it? What should i do with my life while i am waiting? Should i go back to full time work? Or continue part time and consider some volunteering?
And God says in His Word,”I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” What reassuring promises from our Father in Heaven that i must hold on to. I can trust God and lean on Him for strength and ask Him for wisdom and guidance and direction, just like what David did. David never gave up! He continued to encourage himself in God. I want to keep on believing, keep on praying and seeking God, no matter how negative my circumstances seem to be. God is doing a new thing for me Now! I don’t want to get caught up trying and doing this and that with my own strength to get a baby, and completely miss out on the good plans and blessings He has for my life as well as my relationship with Him.
2 Timothy 2:13 says,”If we are faithless, He remains faithful; He cannot deny Himself.” Our God is a faithful God. His timing may be different but He remains faithful.
Prayer points:
- pray that the message of a new season will become real to us.
- pray for the ability to discern things of God in the new season and His timing.
- pray that we will never miss out on His invitation and visitation.
- pray for perseverance to seek God, to follow His guidance and direction.
- pray that we learn to constantly inquire of the Lord, and pray that we will never ever presume upon Him.
- pray that God will deliver us from our difficult situations.
- pray for renewal of our first love for God, pray for more intimate relationship with God.
- pray for God’s restoration to take place in our lives.
- pray that God will break our chains and bondages in whichever areas we are struggling with and pray for breakthroughs.